I’m Dr. Heather England

Clinical Psychotherapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Life and Sex Coach

You Are Successful. But You Crave Better Relationships and Great Sex.

Let Me Help You Create the Life You Want.

Counseling and Coaching

Want to connect with Heather to create the life you want?

Online Help for Your Relationship and Your Sex Life

Learn about How to Rekindle the Love in Your Relationship, Create a Magnificent Sex Life and Treat Erectile Dysfunction.

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Unlock Your Full Potential. Say Hello to THE NEW YOU

Learn to create the life, the meaningful relationships and

sexual intimacy that you truly desire!

Are you stuck?

Do you crave more connection with your partner?

Do you miss feeling cherished?

Do you feel like you and your partners are roommates versus lovers?

Do you wish your sex life was better?

Are you frustrated by erection problems or low desire?

If that sounds like you, then I can help.

You deserve to have the love and sex life you desire.

Life is too short to miss out on magnificent love and great sex.

Individual Therapy & Coaching

Relationship Help

Sex Help

Online and Free Resources

How Do I Get Started?

You can reach out to Dr. England for counseling services or you can head over to her sister site, Love Filled Life, and learn about online courses in cultivating intimacy.

How do I get started?

The first step is to learn about my services by reading through my website. Then, you can contact me through this short form. Following that, either my assistant or I will ask you for some additional information and we will schedule a 20-minute free consult to ensure we are a good fit.

Tell me about the free consultation.

The consultation is a 20-minute video appointment for us to determine whether or not we should work together. Therapy and Coaching are an investment in your resources in terms of both time and money.  I want to ensure we are a good fit because your success is our primary goal. If I think someone else is better suited to meet your needs, I will refer you to them. Again, your success is our goal.

What happens in Sex Therapy?

What a great question!  Sex Therapy or Coaching involves us talking about the things that are preventing you from having the type of sexual intimacy you want or from expressing yourself sexually and jointly developing personalized solutions. We spend time getting to know one another first and I work hard to ensure you feel comfortable talking about sex. 

What is the difference between Therapy and Coaching?

Both Sex Coaching and Therapy follow the same process with the exception that anything requiring intensive therapy interventions is deemed therapy and not coaching.  An example of intensive therapy would be deep work to address depression and anxiety.  All coaching is provided through my sister site, Love Filled Life.

Do you offer online or in-person appointments?

I offer both!  Many people prefer the privacy and efficiency of meeting virtually while others prefer a face-to-face meeting.

About Me

I’m a partner, mom, grandma, friend, veteran, and former corporate senior manager who became enthralled with helping people create better lives. People describe me as kind, compassionate, creative, intelligent, energetic, and direct.

Building strong relationships with my family and friends is the most important thing to me and is my secret to a happy life. It’s the cornerstone to creating a better life for anyone.

I’ve had several careers. Along the way, I got interested in sex. Seriously.  I was fascinated by how often my clients talked about sexual concerns so I went back to school and got a Certificate in Sexual Health from the University of Michigan. And then I spent 2 years becoming a nationally Certified Sex Therapist. And then, I went back to school to get a Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology.

I love working with people to help them improve their lives.  Because I wanted to help as many people as I could with their sex lives (and there are only so many hours I can offer therapy appointments), I created two courses on the subjects I’m most passionate about: couple’s intimacy and erectile dysfunction.  They are in the final stages and should be launched in mid-2022.

If you want to learn more about me and how I can help you, please click below.


Heather’s style made me feel comfortable and like I was pretty normal.  Just feeling that acceptance reduced my ED.

“We grew so much closer during our work with Heather and we learned so much about how to have better sex.”

“Heather really helped me to believe in myself.”

Online Sexual Health Resources

Erectile Dysfunction

Take Charge of Erectile Dysfunction

Learn a roadmap for how to treat and take charge of your erectile dysfunction and transform your sexual intimacy.

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The ROle of performance anxiety in erectile dysfunction

Free Training

Learn more about this pre-recorded, free training on the Role of Performance Anxiety in Erection Troubles.

Dream Big.

Decide What’s Important.

Invest in Your Relationships.

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What’s stopping you from taking the next step to a better life and better relationships?

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