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ONLINE THERAPY IN KANSAS, MISSOURI, NEW YORK, VERMONT & FLORIDA
IN-PERSON COUNSELING IN OVERLAND PARK, KS
COACHING THROUGHOUT THE US

Create a life with the love, relationships & intimacy you want

Individual Therapy, Couples Counseling,
Sex Therapy & Midlife Coaching

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It’s Time to Create the Life You Truly Want

  • Get clear on what you want for your next chapter.

  • Strengthen your relationships and rekindle intimacy.

  • Break old patterns that keep you stuck, overwhelmed or burnt out.

  • Build confidence, boundaries, and emotional wellbeing.

  • Create a future that feels meaningful and fulfilling.

Welcome to Your Best Life

I’m Dr. Heather England, a licensed psychotherapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. I help midlife individuals and couples rediscover connection, intimacy, and meaning to create their best lives in midlife and beyond.

With a PhD in Clinical Sexology, an MBA, and an MS in Counseling, I bring decades of experience as a therapist, corporate business leader, and relationship expert to my work.

I provide in-person therapy and sex therapy services for individuals and couples in the Kansas City metro. I offer confidential online therapy for clients in Kansas, Missouri, Florida, Vermont, and New York.

I also offer life and executing coaching across the United States, specializing in midlife and professionals who want to create a personal life that’s as successful as their careers. I enjoy speaking for corporate events, local women’s groups and training conferences.

I offer individual therapy, couples counseling, sex therapy, accelerated resolution therapy and private therapy intensives to help successful professionals overcome relationship struggles, low desire, sexual difficulties, burnout, and codependent patterns to create a life filled with love, purpose, and authentic joy.

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How We Can Work Together

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    Counseling

    In-person and online counseling for individuals and couples. I offer general counseling, relationship counseling, sex therapy and trauma recovery using Accelerated Resolution Therapy.

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    Midlife Coaching

    Individual and group coaching for professional women in midlife eager to create a personal life that’s as successful as their professional one.

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    Speaking & Consulting

    Inspiring, real-world talks for corporate events, and women’s groups on midlife, wellness, leadership, the power of good relationships and midlife reinvention.

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    Online Workshops

    Online relationship, intimacy and midlife self-paced and live workshops to help you create the life you dream about from the privacy of your home.

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Looking for a Roadmap to Change?

You’ve worked hard to build a good life — a career, a family, a home — yet something still feels off.
Maybe you feel unhappy in your personal life, disconnected from your partner, or unsure how to rekindle intimacy. Maybe you feel more like roommates than lovers, or you’re quietly wondering what your marriage or future is supposed to look like now.

You might look successful on the outside, but inside you feel lonely, unseen, or burnt out.
You’ve spent years taking care of everyone else, pushing through stress, and meeting expectations — but somewhere along the way, your own happiness and sense of belonging faded.

And now midlife is here.
The kids are grown or growing, retirement is on the horizon, and you’re asking yourself: Is this it? What comes next for me?

You’re not alone. So many people reach this stage feeling stuck, disconnected, and unsure how to change their life — only that something needs to change.

Meet Dr. Heather

I'm a psychotherapist, AASECT certified sex therapist, and professional coach helping people transform their lives through intentional life design that includes deeply fulfilling love, relationships, and intimacy. I’m also a former corporate senior manager, a West Point graduate and an Army Captain.

Like you, I found myself at a place where I needed to figure out my next chapter, supercharge my relationships and create my best life.

Life is short. I want to help you love yourself and design your best life.

You can work with me individually, as a couple, do an intensive, take a course, join a group experience, listen to my podcast or read my website. It's your choice. 

You get to decide what you want to invest to create the life you truly desire. I want to help you in whatever way best fits your lifestyle.

LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. HEATHER
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Ready to Get Started?

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  1. Explore your options: therapy, coaching, or workshops.

  2. Reach out to set up your first session or a consultation.

  3. We’ll decide what works best for your needs.

  4. You’ll begin your life-changing transformation.

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