ONLINE THERAPY IN KANSAS, MISSOURI, NEW YORK, VERMONT & FLORIDA
IN-PERSON COUNSELING IN OVERLAND PARK, KS
COACHING THROUGHOUT THE US
Create your best life with the love, relationships & intimacy you want
Individual Therapy, Couples Counseling,
Sex Therapy & Coaching
Welcome to Your Best Life
I’m Dr. Heather England, a licensed psychotherapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist specializing in helping midlife individuals and couples rediscover connection, intimacy, and meaning. With a PhD in Clinical Sexology, an MBA, and an MS in Counseling, I bring decades of experience as a therapist, business leader, and relationship expert to my work.
I offer individual therapy, couples counseling, sex therapy, accelerated resolution therapy and private therapy intensives to help successful professionals overcome relationship struggles, low desire, sexual difficulties, burnout, and codependent patterns to create a life filled with love, purpose, and authentic joy.
I see clients in person in the Kansas City metro, and offer confidential online therapy for clients in Kansas, Missouri, Florida, Vermont, and New York. I also offer life and executing coaching across the United States and enjoy speaking for corporate events, local women’s groups and training conferences.
You're want to change, but don’t know how
You’ve built a successful life, whether that’s through a rewarding career, getting married, or raising your family but you’re unhappy and restless.
If you are like most people, your life, relationships, and intimacy aren’t what you envisioned. Even though you used to feel so in love, over time, you both changed and you grew apart. Communicating and resolving problems are difficult. It feels like you are roommates, not lovers, and your sex life is disappointing. You may even wonder whether you should stay in this relationship.
There’s so much pressure to be successful at work or create a picture-perfect, Instagramable home and family. Sometimes, it feels like what you want or need doesn’t matter and you suck it up, believing you should put others first. But what about you and your happiness?
It’s so easy to get stuck in a cycle of not feeling valued and feeling burnt out by the overwhelming pressure and day-to-day demands.
And you are getting older. You’re tired of not feeling happy, and you can’t imagine living the rest of your life like this. You don’t know how to fix things, or even if it’s possible, but you want to improve your life.
You can create your best life.
Yes, you can! You can have the relationships, love and intimacy you crave.
I am wildly passionate about helping adults:
Learn to radically love themselves, set healthy boundaries, and create the type of life they want
Get clarity about what they want and need in their lives and relationships
Rediscover emotional and sexual intimacy that feels effortless
Build a relationship that energizes rather than depletes you
Recognize toxic relationships and friendships - and exit them
Decide whether or not to stay in their relationship
Overcome codependency
Rediscover what brings you joy outside of work
Reconnect with friends and nurture fulfilling relationships
Learn to balance professional success and personal fulfillment
Happily transition to retirement or having an empty nest
Services
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Individuals
Helping men and women intentionally create the life, relationships, and intimacy they want.
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Couples
Helping couples heal and reignite
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Professionals
Helping successful professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs to find clarity, resolve stress and burnout, and create balance between work, family and fun.
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Midlife
Helping those in midlife and beyond navigate midlife challenges, rediscover purpose, revitalize relationships, and create a fulfilling future.
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Sex Therapy
Expert Sex Therapy to help you feel sexually confident, overcome sexual difficulties, and create a satisfying and enjoyable sex life - on your terms.
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Intensives
Jumpstart progress with longer appointments that do a deep dive into individual and couple’s problems to get results faster.
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Virtual Therapy (Online)
Offering confidential virtual therapy sessions in Kansas, Missouri, and Vermont.
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Courses
Online relationship, sexual health, and business courses and resources for clients and therapists.
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Speaking
Inspiring, real-world talks for corporate events, and women’s groups on midlife, wellness, leadership, and reinvention.
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Accelerated Resolution Therapy
Helping people get unstuck and heal from trauma, anxiety, and painful memories quickly.
Services
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Individuals
Helping men and women intentionally create the life, relationships, and intimacy they want.
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Couples
Helping couples heal and reignite connection, intimacy, and deep love.
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Professionals
Helping successful professionals find clarity, resolve stress and burnout, and create balance between work, family and fun.
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Midlife
Helping those in midlife and beyond navigate midlife challenges, rediscover purpose, and revitalize relationships.
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Sex Therapy
Expert Sex Therapy to help you feel sexually confident, overcome sexual difficulties, and create an enjoyable sex life - on your terms.
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Accelerated Resolution Therapy
Helping people get unstuck and heal from trauma, anxiety, and painful memories quickly.
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Intensives
Jumpstart progress with longer appointments that do a deep dive into individual and couple’s problems to get results faster.
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Virtual Therapy (Online)
Offering confidential virtual therapy sessions in Kansas, Missouri, and Vermont.
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Courses & Resources
Online relationship, sexual health, and business courses, helpful handouts and resources for clients and therapists.
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Speaking
Inspiring, real-world talks for corporate events, and women’s groups on midlife, wellness, leadership, and reinvention.
How Will Therapy Help You?
Therapy will change you. Other people will notice the confident, “new you” and will be more attracted to you. You make make big visible changes like leaving a narcissistic partner or quitting a dead-end job or standing up to a critical parent. But most of your change will be within you as you create a magnificent, healthier “you.”
You start taking care of yourself instead of always being focused on caring for everyone else. You set healthy boundaries and advocate for yourself. Your friends and family respect you. People start to show up for you instead of you always showing up for them.
You feel more content with a fulfilling sense of purpose. You feel more alive in every area of your life. Your happiness skyrockets. Your career benefits from your renewed energy. Your powerful sense of self-worth is a game changer. Your decisions become clearer.
You decide if you want more - or less - or different sex versus feeling pressured into what your partner always wants.
You are never too old to create a magnificent life, enjoy meaningful relationships with your partner, family, and friends, and revitalize powerful love and sexual intimacy.
Meet Dr. Heather
I'm a psychotherapist, AASECT certified sex therapist, and professional coach who is focused on helping people understand and love themselves so they can transform their lives through deeply fulfilling love, relationships, and emotional and sexual intimacy. Like you, I found myself at a place where I was unhappy and I overcame codependency and low self-esteem to supercharge my relationships and create my best life. Life is short. I want to help you love yourself and transform your life.
You can work with me individually, as a couple, do an intensive, take a course, join a group experience, listen to my podcast or read my website. It's your choice. You get to decide what you want to invest to create your best life. I want to help you in whatever way best fits your lifestyle.
Ready to Get Started?
Reach out to set up a consultation.
We’ll chat and decide if individual therapy or an intensive works best for your needs.
We’ll schedule your first session.
You’ll begin your life-changing transformation.
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Not Ready for Therapy?
That’s OK. To get the most out of the therapy process, start therapy when you are ready to change. Until then, I invite you to explore my free and paid resources on my relationship website, LOVE FILLED LIFE.
You can also listen to episodes of my podcast, the Great Sex Podcast on Spotify or Apple and follow me on social media.