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ONLINE THERAPY IN KANSAS, MISSOURI, NEW YORK, VERMONT & FLORIDA
IN-PERSON COUNSELING IN OVERLAND PARK, KS
COACHING THROUGHOUT THE US

Create your best life with the love, relationships & intimacy you want

Individual Therapy, Couples Counseling,
Sex Therapy & Coaching

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You thought life would be different.

You're ready for change, but unsure how to create your best life.

You’ve built a successful life, whether that’s through a rewarding career, getting married, or raising your family but you’re unhappy and restless.

If you are like most people, your life, relationships, and intimacy aren’t what you envisioned. Even though you used to feel so in love, over time, you both changed and you grew apart. Communicating and resolving problems are difficult. It feels like you are roommates, not lovers, and your sex life is disappointing. You may even wonder whether you should stay in this relationship.

There’s so much pressure to be successful at work or create a picture-perfect, Instagramable home and family. Sometimes, it feels like what you want or need doesn’t matter and you suck it up, believing you should put others first. But what about you and your happiness?

It’s so easy to get stuck in a cycle of not feeling valued and feeling burnt out by the overwhelming pressure and day-to-day demands.

And you are getting older. You’re tired of not feeling happy, and you can’t imagine living the rest of your life like this. You don’t know how to fix things, or even if it’s possible, but you want to improve your life.

You can create your best life.

Yes, you can! You can have the relationships, love and intimacy you crave.

I am wildly passionate about helping adults:

  • Learn to radically love themselves, set healthy boundaries, and create the type of life they want

  • Get clarity about what they want and need in their lives and relationships

  • Rediscover emotional and sexual intimacy that feels effortless

  • Build a relationship that energizes rather than depletes you

  • Rediscover what brings you joy outside of work

  • Reconnect with friends and nurture fulfilling relationships

  • Learn to balance professional success and personal fulfillment

  • Happily transition to retirement or having an empty nest

  • Overcome codependency

  • Decide whether or not to stay in their relationship

  • Recognize toxic relationships and friendships - and exit them

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The best part? These changes transform your life.

Your powerful sense of self-worth is a game changer. People notice the confident “new you” and are more attracted to you. Your decisions become clearer. You set healthy boundaries and advocate for yourself. Your friends and family respect you. People start to show up for you instead of you always showing up for them.

You feel more content with a fulfilling sense of purpose. You feel more alive in every area of your life. Your happiness skyrockets. Your career benefits from your renewed energy. Your friends and family respect you.

You are never too old to create a magnificent life, enjoy meaningful relationships with your partner, family, and friends, and revitalize powerful love and sexual intimacy.

Services

Ready to Get Started?

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  1. Reach out to set up a consultation.

  2. We’ll chat and decide if individual therapy or an intensive works best for your needs.

  3. We’ll schedule your first session.

  4. You’ll begin your life-changing transformation.

Meet Dr. Heather

I'm a psychotherapist, AASECT certified sex therapist, and professional coach who is focused on helping people understand and love themselves so they can transform their lives through deeply fulfilling love, relationships, and emotional and sexual intimacy. Like you, I found myself at a place where I was unhappy and I overcame codependency and low self-esteem to supercharge my relationships and create my best life. Life is short. I want to help you love yourself and transform your life.

You can work with me individually, as a couple, do an intensive, take a course, join a group experience, listen to my podcast or read my website. It's your choice. You get to decide what you want to invest to create your best life. I want to help you in whatever way best fits your lifestyle.

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Not Ready for Therapy?

That’s OK. To get the most out of the therapy process, start therapy when you are ready to change. Until then, I invite you to explore my free and paid resources on my relationship website, LOVE FILLED LIFE.

You can also listen to episodes of my podcast, the Great Sex Podcast on Spotify or Apple and follow me on social media.

Let’s Get Started.

You’re Worth It.