Strong Relationships in Midlife: The Key to Health and Happiness
Heather England Heather England

Strong Relationships in Midlife: The Key to Health and Happiness

Strong relationships in midlife are one of the most powerful predictors of long-term health, happiness, and life satisfaction. Decades of research show that emotional intimacy, meaningful connection, and supportive relationships matter far more than success or status. The good news? It’s never too late to strengthen the relationships that truly matter.

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When Intimacy Starts to Feel Like Work
Heather England Heather England

When Intimacy Starts to Feel Like Work

Intimacy doesn’t usually disappear overnight. For many women, it slowly starts to feel like responsibility instead of choice. If intimacy has begun to feel heavy or expected, this piece explores why—and why you’re not broken.

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Why Intimacy Often Changes in Midlife
Heather England Heather England

Why Intimacy Often Changes in Midlife

Midlife brings real shifts in energy, identity, and priorities—and intimacy doesn’t exist outside of those changes. If intimacy feels different than it used to, this piece explores why that’s common and how intimacy can evolve without blame.

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Why Intimacy Shuts Down Under Pressure
Heather England Heather England

Why Intimacy Shuts Down Under Pressure

Pressure around intimacy is often subtle, unspoken, and easy to miss. But when intimacy starts to feel expected instead of chosen, the body often responds by pulling back. This piece looks at how pressure changes intimacy—and why choice matters more than we think.

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How to Improve Sex and Intimacy in Your Relationship After Menopause
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How to Improve Sex and Intimacy in Your Relationship After Menopause

Struggling to improve intimacy after menopause? Intimacy in your relationship doesn’t have to fade with age. In our latest post, we share practical tips on how to reignite intimacy after menopause—through communication, emotional connection, and even a little creativity. Whether it’s dealing with vaginal dryness or finding new ways to connect, it’s all about rediscovering what works for you both. #IntimacyAfterMenopause #MidlifeRelationships #SexualHealth #MenopauseJourney

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Sex Therapist vs. Certified Sex Therapist: Why the Difference Matters
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Sex Therapist vs. Certified Sex Therapist: Why the Difference Matters

If you’re looking for help with sexual concerns, you’ve probably come across a lot of options, but not all sex therapists are the same. In this post, I explain the key differences between a regular sex therapist and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and why choosing someone with specialized training can make a big difference in your therapy experience. I also share tips on how to find the right therapist for you, with advice on the questions to ask and what qualifications to look for. If you’re Googling “sex therapist near me” or wondering, “how do I find a sex therapist?” this post has everything you need to make an informed decision.

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Navigating Political Differences: The Power of Connection
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Navigating Political Differences: The Power of Connection

Discover practical strategies for navigating political differences in relationships without compromising your values. Learn about self-differentiation, setting healthy boundaries, and staying emotionally regulated during difficult conversations. Perfect for midlife adults seeking to preserve meaningful connections with family, friends, and partners despite opposing political views.

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Performance Anxiety: How it Impacts Your Erections

Performance Anxiety: How it Impacts Your Erections

Performance Anxiety is one of the top causes of erectile dysfunction. It can also contribute to continued erectile issues even if you have a medical cause for your erectile dysfunction. Watch the free training to feel more in charge of your erections so you can start enjoying the sex life you want.

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Interview on Selling the Couch Podcast

Interview on Selling the Couch Podcast

Creating an online course, and one as robust as the Erection Dysfunction Masterclass was incredibly complex, time-consuming, and challenging. Listen to Heather's interview with Dr. Melvin Varghese on the Selling the Couch podcast about how to deliver the right amount of content in the course.

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