I’m Dr. Heather England
Clinical Psychotherapist, Certified Sex Therapist, Life and Sex Coach
ONLINE THERAPY IN KANSAS, MISSOURI, AND VERMONT
IN-PERSON THERAPY IN KANSAS
Helping You Create the Life, Relationships and Intimacy You Want.
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Learn about How to Treat Erectile Dysfunction.
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Create the life, meaningful relationships, and
sexual intimacy that you truly desire!
Are you feeling stuck or burnout?
Do you wish your life was different?
Do you miss feeling loved for who you are, not how much money you make?
Do you feel like you and your partners are roommates versus lovers?
Do you wish you and your partner were better at talking about the important things?
Do you wish your sex life was better?
If that sounds like you, then I can help.
You deserve to have the life, love, and intimacy you desire.
Life is too short to miss out on magnificent love and great sex.
Individual Therapy & Coaching
Relationship Help
Sex Help
Online and Free Resources
How Do I Get Started?
You can reach out to Dr. England for counseling services or you can head over to her sister site, Love Filled Life, and learn about online courses in cultivating intimacy.
How do I get started?
The first step is to learn about my services by reading through my website. Then, you can contact me through this short form. Following that, either my assistant or I will ask you for some additional information and we will schedule a 20-minute free consult to ensure we are a good fit.
Tell me about the free consultation.
The consultation is a 20-minute video appointment for us to determine whether or not we should work together. Therapy and Coaching are an investment in your resources in terms of both time and money. I want to ensure we are a good fit because your success is our primary goal. If I think someone else is better suited to meet your needs, I will refer you to them. Again, your success is our goal.
What happens in Sex Therapy?
What a great question! Sex Therapy or Coaching involves us talking about the things that are preventing you from having the type of sexual intimacy you want or from expressing yourself sexually and jointly developing personalized solutions. We spend time getting to know one another first and I work hard to ensure you feel comfortable talking about sex.
What is the difference between Therapy and Coaching?
Both Sex Coaching and Therapy follow the same process with the exception that anything requiring intensive therapy interventions is deemed therapy and not coaching. An example of intensive therapy would be deep work to address depression and anxiety. All coaching is provided through my sister site, Love Filled Life.
Do you offer online or in-person appointments?
I offer both! Many people prefer the privacy and efficiency of meeting virtually while others prefer a face-to-face meeting.
About Me
I’m a partner, mom, grandma, friend, Army veteran, and former corporate senior manager who became enthralled with helping people create better lives. People describe me as kind, compassionate, creative, intelligent, energetic, and direct.
Building strong relationships with my family and friends is the most important thing to me and is my secret to a happy life. It’s the cornerstone to creating a better life for anyone.
I love working with people to help them improve their lives. You can work with me individually, take a course, join a group experience, listen to my podcast, or read my website. It’s your choice. You get to decide what you want to invest to create your best life. I want to help you in whatever way best fits your lifestyle.
Testimonials
“Heather’s style made me feel comfortable and like I was pretty normal. Just feeling that acceptance reduced my ED.“
“We grew so much closer during our work with Heather and we learned so much about how to have better sex.”
“Heather really helped me to believe in myself.”
Online Sexual Health Resources

Take Charge of Erectile Dysfunction
Learn a roadmap for how to treat and take charge of your erectile dysfunction and transform your sexual intimacy.

Reignite Your Love and Sex Life
Learn more about this women-only program designed to help you rekindle love and create magnificent sexual intimacy.

Free Training
Learn more about this pre-recorded, free training on the Role of Performance Anxiety in Erection Troubles.
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Performance Anxiety
Performance Anxiety is one of the top causes of erectile dysfunction. It can also contribute to continued erectile issues even if you have a medical cause for your erectile dysfunction. Watch the free training to feel more in charge of your erections so you can start enjoying the sex life you want.
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